I had to start putting the same energy in myself the way I put that same energy into the world. I had to love me like I loved those ex's, I had to love me the way I loved my mother, I had to honor and adore me the way I honored and adored my nieces and nephews. It's a mouth full, but I had to look the woman in the mirror and I had to face her and tell her, You are worthy, you are enough, you have a calling, you have a purpose. Girl, I have to love you the way I love everyone else. I declared a season of healing. This is how I had to start loving myself.